Marriage in Kerala Hindu tradition is not merely a union of two hearts —it is a sacred alignment of destiny, family lineage, dharma, and shared future, mutual respect, patience, and truthful companionship can sanctify even an imperfect match.
❤️ PERSONAL
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What does marriage mean to you?
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What are your non-negotiable values?
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What fears do you have about marriage?
🏠 FAMILY
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Role of parents after marriage?
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Financial responsibility to family?
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Festival traditions priority?
💰 FINANCE
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Monthly savings goal?
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Joint or separate accounts?
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Big purchase decision method?
👶 CHILDREN
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Want children? When?
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School type preference?
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Parenting roles division?
💞 RELATIONSHIP
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How do you handle arguments?
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What makes you feel loved?
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What hurts you most emotionally?
🌍 FUTURE
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Abroad settlement openness?
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Career break acceptance?
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Dream lifestyle at 50?
COMPATIBILITY PERCENTAGE MODEL
You can evaluate like this:
🪔 Traditional Astrology
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Horoscope match: 40% weight
🧠 Psychological & Emotional
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Personality harmony: 25%
💰 Practical Lifestyle Match
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Finance + family + goals: 20%
❤️ Personal Chemistry
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Emotional comfort & attraction: 15%
INTERPRETING FINAL SCORE
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85–100% → Ideal match (Shubha Vivaham)
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70–84% → Strong marriage potential
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55–69% → Requires conscious effort
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40–54% → Serious discussions needed
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Below 40% → Traditionally discouraged
🌺 FINAL CONVERSATION
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“Can we face financial loss together calmly?”
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“Will we protect each other in front of families?”
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“Are we marrying for life — not just for love?”
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“Can we disagree respectfully?”
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“Will we grow individually while staying united?”
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“If attraction fades, will friendship remain?”
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“Can we forgive mistakes without humiliation?”
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“Are we choosing each other freely, not under pressure?”